Whether in cyberspace, in school or in any other public place, the result remains the same; bullying can be harmful, even devastating, to both the child who is the target and the parents who are trying to help end it.
But what are the signs to look for? What are the steps to take to remedy the situation? When does the situation become criminal in nature? When should police be contacted?
Here is some pertinent information to help you understand and determine if your child is being bullied.
Bullying can take on many forms. It can be:
When bullying occurs in cyberspace, it is called cyberbullying.
Denigration, isolation, insults, rumours and threats are among the most common acts of cyberbullying. Sometimes their authors identify themselves, while others choose to act anonymously.
Although bullying is an offence in the Criminal Code, its legal definition rarely corresponds to the problematic situations that can arise between young people in a school setting. In fact, the term “bullying” is often used to define contexts in which young people are subjected to hurtful comments or repeated intimidating gestures. While this type of context is difficult and stressful for the victim, rarely these actions fall within the Criminal Code definition of bullying.
In short, not all bullying or cyberbullying committed in a school setting is necessarily criminal under the law. In order for a criminal complaint to be filed, police officers must look at the context in which the bullying occurs. In discussions with the child or youth being bullied, police will seek to determine whether one or more criminal offences may have been committed, and if so, on which basis legal action may be taken.
Examples of Criminal Code offences that can be charged:
*Defamatory libel is material published without lawful justification or excuse and likely to damage the reputation of any person by exposing him or her to hatred, contempt or ridicule, or intended to offend the person against whom it is published. However, this section of the Criminal Code is rarely used in a school setting.
If you encounter or become aware of any of the following situations, contact the SPVG immediately:
Sometimes, no criminal offence within the definition of the law can be identified in connection with the acts of intimidation. In other cases, legal action simply cannot be taken because the person at fault is not of the age required to be considered criminally responsible for those acts. For more information, please visit the Youth Criminal Justice Act Web page.
While no legal action can be taken against the bully in these specific cases, this does not mean that the situation is not serious or acceptable, nor does it mean that the victim should be left to fend for themselves.
When events take place in a school setting, the following measures are put in place to stop bullying and to help victims:
On the web, it is easy to feel falsely invincible and to believe that our comments can remain anonymous. Some people allow themselves to say things or do things that go much further than if they were in the presence of other people, rather than alone behind their screens.
Let's educate our youth to avoid being the harasser or the one that's being harassed:
Sources:
https://www.quebec.ca/famille-et-soutien-aux-personnes/violences/intimidation/cyberintimidation
https://www.canada.ca/en/public-safety-canada/campaigns/cyberbullying.html